The Community That Gives Me Hope
Reflections on My First Year at United Way Wayne & Holmes by Ashley Hershberger
Sometimes life has a funny way of taking us exactly where we need to go, even when we can't see it at the time.
Early last year, I found myself in a particularly stressful season of uncertainty and self-doubt.
Then one Sunday morning, my pastor, Phil Wells, shared a piece of advice he learned from his grandmother:
"Instead of asking ‘why this is happening to me’, ask ‘why this is happening for me."
At the time, I thought it was a really inspiring quote, so I typed it into my phone and went back to listening to the sermon.
Looking back, I think it was exactly what I needed to hear.
Not long after that, I joined the team at United Way Wayne & Holmes Counties.
A Year Later...
People often ask me, "So... how's the new job?"
The answer is easy. I love it.
Now, don't get me wrong. Being the "new kid" at 40 has been humbling. Learning new systems, working from two offices, and switching from Gmail to Outlook has definitely been an adventure. And let's just say Salesforce and I might be in a long-term, complicated relationship. IYKYK.
I'm blessed to work with an incredible team that cares about our community and about each other. They've welcomed me, supported me, and shown an amazing amount of patience as I've learned the ropes.
A year in, I can honestly say this opportunity came along at exactly the right time. It's challenged me, stretched me, and introduced me to people, partnerships, and stories I may never have encountered otherwise.
What I Didn't See Before
I've lived in Wayne and Holmes Counties my entire life. I grew up here, built my career here, and now I'm raising my family here. Before joining the staff, I served on the UWWH Board. I believed in the mission and supported the work. I thought I had a pretty good grasp on what United Way does.
Then I got to see it from the inside.
I’ve learned that this work isn't just about campaigns, fundraising, or programs.
It's about people.
It's the introductions that create opportunities. The conversations that spark ideas. The connections that help move something from "someone should do something about that" to "let's make it happen."
A family gets support.
A school finds a partner.
A nonprofit gains momentum.
A project that's been sitting on a shelf finally starts moving.
I've lost count of how many times I've heard:
"I know someone who can help."
"We've been wanting to do something like that."
"You need to meet this person."
It's amazing how often the right people seem to find each other at exactly the right time.
What Gives Me Hope
This past year reminded me that the challenges we talk about aren't happening somewhere else.
They're happening right here.
To parents searching for childcare. To grandparents stepping in when family needs them most. To families navigating healthcare, transportation, housing, hunger, and all the unexpected curveballs life can throw our way.
These aren't strangers. They're our coworkers, neighbors, friends, and family members.
The challenges here are very real.
But so is the willingness of people to help.
It's the teacher who stays late. The volunteer who says yes. The coach who pours into kids. The pastor who checks in on a family. The business owner who gives back. The neighbor who steps in when someone needs a hand.
It's the person who asks, "How can I help?" and then does.
When I think about where I was a little over a year ago, sitting in that church service, I can't help but feel so grateful for where that journey led.
It gave me a deeper appreciation for this community and the people who make it special.
It has reminded me that the best thing about Wayne and Holmes Counties isn't what we have.
It's who we have.
Thank you to everyone who has made this past year so meaningful. Thank you for the encouragement, the partnerships, the conversations, and for being part of what makes Wayne and Holmes Counties such a special place to call home.
Keep showing up for one another.
Keep believing in this community.
Keep being the reason someone has hope.
United, We Help. ❤️








